Preview of the Framework
The keep in touch!
and is stabilized by: Stimulation.
The keep fit!
and is stabilized by: Concentration.
The have feelings!
and is stabilized by: Attachment.
The maintain self-esteem!
and is stabilized by: Respect.
The cultivate relationships!
and is stabilized by: Attunement.
The contribute purposefully!
and is stabilized by: Participation.
The embrace spirituality!
and is stabilized by: Faith.
For more, see the matrix summary.
The Trajectory in Brief
The natural sequence of
(value-sets) to be installed traces out a spiral trajectory when plotted on the . As the values at each cumulate, the becomes progressively stronger and a person is more .The
starts in the , which enables an immediate necessary sense of existence and uniqueness. This is a matter of and a willingness to own them.However, it soon becomes evident in social situations that your
, though unmistakable and perhaps lovable, is somewhat unstable. You cry more than most. Your varying feelings make you unpredictable or even unreliable—and not only in the eyes of others.It is common to become dissatisfied with the volatility and to doubt your own motivations and goals. Personal life may become chaotic or excessively inhibited to compensate for the seeming vulnerability intrinsic to emotional lability. The first challenge may therefore be labeled: "
" (as represented in : and this is what is about.The various instigators of transition are shown in the diagram below and then briefly explained.
Growth Stages 1 → 2 → 3 → 4 give you more and better control over your motivated presence.
Stage 1 is almost automatic in a healthy person. It starts with sensitivity to your own feelings, which is the basis of the
.But this solo self-management and self-assertion can be hard to sustain.
In Stage-2, values from the
enable development of a public identity with unambiguous distinctiveness and an associated social acceptance and public support.But, over time, your willingness to conform to group norms may diminish because they seems too inhibiting and controlling.
So in Stage-3, values from the
But, over time, privacy can lead to a loneliness and disconnection which then impairs self-esteem and potentially disturbs others in your groups.
So in Stage-4, values of the
Having reached this point, the original «
can now be referred to as « » and its emotions areCycle-1 starts with a
from the and concludes by spontaneously re-entering to generate a . That assures a natural —so long as you stay within your comfort zones.Growth Stages 4(1) → 5 → 6 → 7 allow you to experience greater meaning via self-actualization.
is a process in which comfort zones lose their attraction, so that unknown parts and potentials of the self can be realized. The first step involves becoming mentally and bodily energized.
In Stage-5, values of the
enable the selection of new, suitable challenges that draw on your deeper potentials.But new and demanding activities expose a person to dangers. Given development so far, only protection and guidance that are moral or ethical in nature will be willingly accepted.
So in Stage-6, values of the
But the selflessness that is required can be too isolating, and individuality may become too inward.
So in Stage-7, values of the
Having reached this point, a person now possesses a natural and consistent
capacity.Cycle-2 concludes by re-entering the
to generate a more attuned and appropriate that ensures automatic consistent . is now solid and resilient in the face of life's vicissitudes, whatever they may be.Emotions are Central for the Self
for a . At the outset, the existence of feelings affirms the unmistakable presence of a rudimentary self, even if transient and unstructured. The Spiral then shows how can be progressively strengthened (i.e. ratcheted downwards and to the right) to produce an ever more and response to both others and oneself.- The full story is far more interesting and it starts here.
- See a more detailed summary in the final Review.
Originally drafted: 4-Jan-2016. Last amended:25-Jan-2016.